12 Ways to have fun with your new maybe-lover-friend

We meet and we like and we sometimes learn to love each other…other times we just meet we like each other but we keep looking for someone to love…for those times when you just met, explore each other in simple ways…fun things to do together to see if this is a match made on earth or heaven…try these ideas and see how you feel in the other’s presence.

1.take a trip to IKEA. walk around, browse, bounce questions off of each other…mostly just be light and don’t plan or promise…

2.pitch a tent. even if you are not an outdoorsy person pulling a tent up and spend the night under the stars could break or make a relationship

3.draw each other. not every one of us is an artist, but even the most untalented person will pay attention to the subjects good side…(0:

4.tv dance party in 2. just turn your TV to any music channel or u agree on music type) and dance any way you want. goofy or serious up to u

5.play a board game. in a coffee shop. I know it sound silly…try it.

6.photo shoot. take pictures of each other bad or good just play with the camera. huge turn on…if either don’t like taking pictures don’t look at them later but erase. the experience is the essence not the results.

7.3rd person. invite a 3rd person to a movie with the 2 of you, not for a 3 some…nono. just to mix it up a bit. learn how both of u react to change

8.wine in the tub. pop a bottle of wine in a tub together…

9.net window shopping. do not actually buy anything online…just surf and see what you both would buy…

10.be a tourist. in your own town. explore your city together like you never been there before…

11.gamble. don’t spend your paycheck tho. just gamble at penny machines…just for the trill and fun not for money…

12.cook. see if you can get along in the kitchen. no need for special skills. one of you can be a sou chef.

These are not tried and true ways to find your true love, just a few ideas…always check your heart rate before and after a “date like this…for good measure  and don’t forget to have fun and smile even if you burned that scrumptious dinner…

 

Love,

Adele

 

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